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Family life is messy. Everything about it is messy. The clothes all over the floor. The spills. The early-morning unmade beds. The viruses that knock us out, one by one, for weeks on end. The arguments that escalate fast and go on too long.
I’m learning to appreciate—no, love—these scars that family life makes in the fabric of our lives. It’s this love that allows me to stop in an otherwise busy day and put the dishes down and grab old newspapers out of the trash and scatter them about to be our ocean, while Gregg decorates a stack of moving boxes to be ships. And now we are a band of pirates instead of an orderly group of people with folded laundry.
That’s Adrian, over at Communal Table.